#204: Your Heartache Isn't My Mistake

Have you ever been in a situation where you've had someone feel for you in a way that you couldn't imagine feeling back for them? A close friend of mine told me today that they feel for me in ways I can not return. You can like someone so much as a friend that anything other than that feeling can make you feel guilty, uncomfortable, saddened, and frustrated. If this is how I feel, I can only imagine his mental state. But unfortunately, it can't always be the way you want in to be. And if you're straight with that person from the beginning, what more can you do, right?

You have to look for inner strength and not rely on that person to make you feel special. First, you have to learn to do that yourself.